Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Southern California Judge Denies Protective Order to Mother…Bam! Father Murders Young Son and Kills Himself

California Judge Denies Protective Order to Mother…Bam! Father Murders Young Son and Kills Himself

Filed under: California, Child Abuse, Child Custody, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Child Custody for mothers, Child custody for fathers, Children and Domestic Violence, Children's rights, Corrupt Judges, Corrupt bastards, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Violence, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, Fathers Rights,Fathers who murder their children, Getting screwed by the Family Courts, Judge J. David Mazurek, Judicial Immunity, Katie Tagle, Murder, Murder - Suicide, Parental Alienation Disorder, Parental Alienation Disorders,Parental Alienation Syndrome, Stephen Garcia, parental alienation — justice4mothers @ 6:40 pm

Just as other mothers who have feared for the lives of their children, and try and seek protection for them, dear Katie Tagle was turned away.   Now her young son Wyatt is dead.  From SFGate.com (San Francisco Chronicle):

SoCal father, son dead in apparent murder-suicide

Sunday, January 31, 2010

01-31, 18:38 PST HESPERIA, Calif. (AP) –

Authorities in San Bernardino County say a 25-year-old father and his 9-month-old son have died in what investigators believe is a murder-suicide.  A sheriff’s news release says deputies found Stephen Garcia and son Wyatt Garcia dead in a vehicle on a rural dirt road in the Twin Peaks area early Sunday.

The release says the Hesperia Sheriff’s Station had received a report Saturday night that Garcia took his son during a court-ordered visitation and threatened to kill the child and himself.  The department did not say how the pair died, only that they “sustained traumatic injuries.”  The county coroner will conduct an autopsy on both father and son this week.

Stephen Garcia was from the Pinon (pin-YONE) Hills area and his son was from Yucca Valley.


Hat tip to Annie for digging out the court docket on this one.  It is heartbreaking to read that Judge J. David Mazuek found that the father was not a threat to the mother or child two weeks prior to the murder of dear little Wyatt.  Read the court docket here.

Case FAMMS900840 – KATIE TAGLE -N- STEPHEN GARCIA

OSC RE: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FILED BY KATIE TAGLE
01/12/2010 – 9:00 AM DEPT. M3

J. DAVID MAZUREK PRESIDING.

CLERK: KIMBERLEY HATCH

COURT REPORTER JENNIFER BARNAKIAN POLAND JENNIFER BARNAKIAN POLAND

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PETITIONER KATIE TAGLE PRESENT

RESPONDENT STEPHEN GARCIA PRESENT

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PROCEEDINGS:

OSC/MOTION HELD.

BOTH PARTIES ARE SWORN AND EXAMINED.

COURT FINDS THERE IS A PENDING PROCEEDING IN

THE VICTORVILLE COURT THAT IS SUBJECT TO CUSTODY

AND VISITATION ORDERS.

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COURT FINDS THERE IS NOT THREAT TO PETITIONER

OR THE MINOR CHILD.

THE OSC IS DENIED.

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ORAL MOTION FOR ATTORNEY FEES BY RESPONDENT IS

DENIED.

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BOTH PARTIES ARE REMINDED BY THE COURT OF THEIR

FAMILY COURT SERVICES APPOINTMENT FOR THEIR

VICTORVILLE CASE.

COMPLAINT STAGE AT DISPOSITION – OTHER DISMISSAL BEFORE HEARING (FL)

DISPOSITION OTHER DISMISSAL BEFORE HEARING (FL)

COURT ORDERS ENTIRE ACTION DISMISSED WITHOUT PREJUDICE. REASON: REQUEST DENIED..

ACTION – COMPLETE

=== MINUTE ORDER END ===

Case FAMMS900840 – KATIE TAGLE -N- STEPHEN GARCIA

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Action Text

Disposition

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01/26/2010

FEE PAYMENT

Not Applicable

 
 

01/26/2010

FEE PAYMENT

Not Applicable

 
 

01/12/2010 9:00 AM DEPT. M3

OSC RE: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FILED BY KATIE TAGLE - Minutes

Pre-D Complete

 
 

01/11/2010

ANDREW H. LUND IS REMOVED AS ATTORNEY FOR STEPHEN GARCIA, AND PRO/PER IS ADDED AS ATTORNEY OF RECORD.

Not Applicable

 
 

01/08/2010

PROOF OF SERVICE OF SUPP DECL BY KATIE TAGLE BY MAIL ON 01/07/10 AS TO ATTORNEY ANDREW LUND, FILED.

Not Applicable

 
 

01/08/2010

DECLARATION OF KATIE M TAGLE FILED

Not Applicable

 
 

01/05/2010

PROOF OF SERVICE OF ANSWER TO TRO/IE BY MAIL ON 01/05/10 AS TO KATIE TAGLE, FILED.

Not Applicable

 
 

01/05/2010

INCOME AND EXPENSE DECLARATION FILED BY STEPHEN GARCIA

Not Applicable

 
 

01/05/2010

ANSWER TO TEMPORARY RESTRAINING ORDER FILED BY STEPHEN GARCIA, PARTY REPRESENTED BY ANDREW H. LUND.

Not Applicable

 
 

12/15/2009 8:29 AM DEPT. M3

EX-PARTE MOTION RE: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE -Minutes

Pre-D Complete

 
 

12/11/2009

CERTIFICATE OF ASSIGNMENT RECEIVED.

Not Applicable

 
 

12/11/2009

EX PARTE RE: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FILED BY KATIE TAGLE

   
 

12/11/2009

REQUEST FOR ORDER DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PREVENTION

Not Applicable

 
 

12/11/2009

REQUEST AND PARTY INFORMATION ENTERED.(DV)

Not Applicable

 

See the heartbreaking MySpace page that belongs to the father and the bizzare RIP on it.

Another scary indicator:  Stephen Garcia’s website he set up on his obsession with Katiehere.

Judge J. David Mazurek needs to held accountable on this, and charged as an accomplice in this murder.  This needs to happen to every judge that allows abusers to take children, and then hurt or murder them.  Maybe then judges will start taking domestic violence seriously.  Thanks to the father’s rights advocates and their “false allegations” drivel, they have turned America’s judges into a bunch of pussies who absolutely have no clue.  Just get the child to the father….doesn’t matter if he is violent or not.  It is time to stop listening to the mantra from these groups and start taking these violent guys seriously, and start putting judges in prison that don’t.

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Socal dad who planned child's death on facebook

 

This is the same story from the other day. Another article. The comments are unbelievable.

The judge needs to be removed. There is so much evidence of this guys plot to kill, and to top it off it seems his friends and family may have helped.

If you want a story to publicize the problems, this one shouldn't be ignored. FYI-he had no arrests for dv or abuse.

Not every guy like this will kill, but there sure as hell will make mom's life and the child's life a living hell and do everything they can to take the child from the mom.

http://www.detrimentalind.com/

http://www.vvdailypress.com/news/hills-17062-son-pinon.html

 

ilovemikey07 wrote:

I am so angry.. I knew this guy, I went to school with him! The mother tried to protect her child and look what happened! She had so much proof that Stephen was a danger to Wyatt. I posted this link on my FB page, and I was attacked by a "friend" of Stephen's. This person also refuses to read the website or Stephen's facebook page. This guy put all of his stuff out there, he made a special website http://www.Detrimentalind.com he posted it on his FB page http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#/StephenKatieWyatt?v=wall&ref=search

All the proof is right there and no one helped saved the baby, someone even went as far in assisting in the murder! That person who posted the suicide letters had to have known what Stephen was going to do, and instead of helping save the baby he/she helped kill the child.


I wish that when FB suggested I become "friends" with Stephen I would have done it, because I know that if I would have seen those posts I would have been on the phone calling some police or doing whatever I could to stop it and have that guy committed... but the system couldn't even listen to the mother, so I don't think I would have gotten anywhere

 

2/2/2010 12:45 AM PST on VVDailypress.com

 

ilovemikey07 wrote:

I am so angry.. I knew this guy, I went to school with him! The mother tried to protect her child and look what happened! She had so much proof that Stephen was a danger to Wyatt. I posted this link on my FB page, and I was attacked by a "friend" of Stephen's. This person also refuses to read the website or Stephen's facebook page.

This guy put all of his stuff out there, he made a special website http://www.Detrimentalind.com he posted it on his FB page http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#/StephenKatieWyatt?v=wall&ref=search all the proof is right there and no one helped saved the baby, someone even went as far in assisting in the murder! That person who posted the suicide letters had to have known what Stephen was going to do, and instead of helping save the baby he/she helped kill the child.


I wish that when FB suggested I become "friends" with Stephen I would have done it, because I know that if I would have seen those posts I would have been on the phone calling some police or doing whatever I could to stop it and have that guy committed... but the system couldn't even listen to the mother, so I don't think I would have gotten anywhere

2/2/2010 12:45 AM PST on VVDailypress.com

http://www.vvdailypress.com/news/hills-17062-son-pinon.html

Pinon Hills man plans murder of infant son, suicide on Facebook

Comments 21 | Recommend 6

February 01, 2010 11:19 PM

Beatriz Valenzuela

In a chilling letter posted on Facebook for anyone to see, Stephen Garcia, 25, of Pinon Hills appears to detail how he planned his suicide and the murder of his 9-month-old son.

“I led everyone on my side of the family to believe I wouldn’t of done this because I did not want them to know...” the letter reads. “I had been thinking about doing this for months.”

The post may help San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Homicide investigators piece together what led to the Sunday morning tragedy, when Garcia took his infant son during a court-ordered visitation, drove to a dirt road in Twin Peaks and ended both of their lives.

In the letter posted to his Facebook profile, Garcia claimed the deaths were an attempt to save his son from a difficult life — and to punish the baby’s mother, Katie Tagle, for refusing to come back to him.

“Our deaths are a lot for her,” the post continues. “It will have to suffice as her punishment. But that is not the reason I did it. It was the only way we could be happy without Katie. I did this out of love for our son, to protect him and myself.”

Saved letters, text messages and massive files containing e-mails and other correspondence give a glimpse into Garcia’s obsession, cursing Tagle and her family in some posts and asking her to return to him in others.

Court documents tell more of the story, with Tagle filing a request for a domestic violence restraining order on Dec. 11, 2009. On Jan. 12 that order was denied, as it was found Garcia was not a “threat to petitioner or the minor child.”

A search of his criminal record showed no history of domestic violence, battery or similar offenses in San Bernardino County. However, in one of a slew of other online letters attributed to Garcia, it states, “I’m sorry for hurting you. I’m sorry for hitting you. I’m sorry I made the wrong choices.”

On Jan. 17, shortly after the final visit with Judge David Mazurek, Garcia joined a Facebook group called “Organ Donor.”

In the days leading up to the murder-suicide, Garcia posted a half-dozen videos and dozens of photos of Wyatt with cryptic captions such as, “Please, it’s not too late.”

On his MySpace page, his mood over the last week was listed as “tested,” “bummed” and “scared,” with “one more day :(” his final post.

Hours before officials got a call Saturday night that Wyatt was missing and Garcia had threatened to kill him, he made his final online post: “We love you all.”

The suicide note was posted on Garcia’s Facebook profile Sunday, about eight hours after Hesperia Sheriff’s deputies found the bodies in Garcia’s car. It appears Garcia left directions for someone to post the letter and make it public for everyone to see.

The lengthy post also reads as a will, with directions for how to distribute his possessions and personal notes to family members and friends. It also states that Garcia left a signed letter in his truck, confessing to the killings and explaining why he did them.

Though Garcia mentions using a gun, investigators have not released information on how he killed Wyatt and himself, stating only that they both died from “traumatic injuries.”

Anyone who may have information about this case is asked to call Detective Ryan Ford or Sgt. Frank Montanez at the Sheriff’s Homicide Detail at (909) 387-3589 or call WeTip at (800) 78-CRIME.
Brooke Edwards and Natasha Lindstrom contributed to this report.


Beatriz E. Valenzuela may be reached at 951-6276 or at BValenzuela@VVDailyPress.com.

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Monday, February 1, 2010

Kansas Lawmakers Heard Testimony Today on Domestic Violence Law HB 2517

 

Kansas lawmakers heard testimony Monday about a new proposed domestic violence law. Members of the house committee on corrections and juvenile justice heard testimony about a bill to assist the criminal justice system in documenting crimes linked to domestic violence and track repeated offenders.

Posted: 5:32 PM Feb 1, 2010
Reporter: Stephanie Ramos
Email Address: stephanie.ramos@wibw.com


 

Kansas lawmakers gathered Monday to hear testimony about a new proposed domestic violence law. The bill proposed Monday will track people who are continuously domestic violence offenders..... one victim's family was there to support not just their daughter but everyone who may be affected.

Jana Mackey, a University of Kansas law student was only 25 years old when she was murdered by her ex boyfriend 18 months ago.

"My hope is that we get a positive reaction from the house committee members and that next week when they take a vote on this bill..hopefully they will support it and move it on to the full house..by the end of the session bill for the governor to sign." says Curt Brungardt, stepfather of victim Jana Mackey.

The Brungardt's say proposed house bill 2517 is a good way to keep track of domestic violence crimes but will also reduce the amount of offenders...

The family hopes that when the bill is voted on next week it will pass on to the next level and that by the end of the session the bill will be ready to be signed by the governor.

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Sunday, January 31, 2010

Court Watch Works: Family Court Judge Follows the Law When Observers Are There

Thank you Justice4Mothers!!

 

January 31, 2010

Court Watch Works: Family Court Judge Follows the Law When Observers Are There

Filed under: Best interest of the child, Child Custody, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Child custody for fathers, Children's rights, Claudine Dombrowski, Corrupt bastards, Court Watch, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Violence, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, Fathers Rights, Guardian Ad Litem, Hal Richardson, Jason P. Hoffman, Jill Dykes, Judge David Debenham, Kansas, Legal abuse, Non-custodial Mothers, Noncustodial Mothers, Parental Alienation Disorder, Parental Alienation Disorders, Parental Alienation Syndrome, Shawnee County, Topeka, parental alienation — justice4mothers @ 1:04 pm

Dear Claudine Dombrowski was in another hearing this past week on January 28th.  She sought to be able to have a normal relationship with her child after being denied it for 10 years.  I was there as were other court watchers, and I will tell you that nothing makes a court behave more than having a front row full of people taking notes furiously through a hearing.  After years of having her rights being walked all over by Kansas courts, she finally got some justice.

Claudine is part of the lawsuit against the United States with the Inter American Commission on Human Rights, ten mothers and one adult child survivor of the process.  The case claims that U.S. courts, by frequently awarding child custody to abusers and child molesters, has failed to protect the life, liberties, security and other human rights of abused mothers and their children.  She had been brutally abused by the father of their child, yet he received full custody and she has had supervised visitation for the past six years.  Visitation she could not afford because the father disabled her to a point she cannot work anymore (100% disabled, and now us taxpayers take care of her on subsistence-only monies).  The court and the court whores were able to completely overrun her rights with no witnesses there.  This time there were folks there for her, and Judge David Debenham (Division 13, Shawnee County) had to follow the law.

The witnesses heard such things in court as “First Amendment Rights” and “Constitutional Right” that had never been said before…and this from the judge.  I focused on what was happening at the opposing table while the hearing was going on.

Opposing attorney Jason P. Hoffman seemed hyper-focused on blaming Claudine for expressing her views on various blogs.  Eventually the judge stopped this and said she had a “First Amendment Right” to express her views out there on the internet, as long as it didn’t involve her child’s image and name.  Guardian ad Litem Jill Dykes rolled her eyes frequently during the hearing, including when Hoffman asked Claudine if she had degraded dad to the child, and Claudine answered no.  I wonder if she ever wondered about dad’s own actions.  I don’t think so.  Dykes smirked during discussion of the tribute video made after her mother’s death.  This wasn’t the only display from the opposing table though.  Hoffman snorted when Claudine was asked if there were problems during a visitation if the child could contact anyone, and she answered yes.  The father hung his head and placed hand over his eyes when testimony was given that the father had not provided child for supervised visitation on previous attempts by Claudine to see the child.

As a final act, Jill Dykes tried to have a document admitted that was written by their visitation supervisor, and the court refused to accept it since it was hearsay evidence.  Normally, Claudine reported that the court would take everything before this hearing, so I suppose Jill Dykes expected it would be business as usual when she brought this “letter” to court.  Surely she would know she could not legally admit it.  But then a court full of watchers prevented that.

During the closing arguments, opposing attorney Jason P. Hoffman spewed those infamous words “parental alienation at it’s worst.”  Apparently he is not aware that the National Association of Juvenile and Family Court Judges have warned judges not to accept claims of “parental alienation” because of it’s use by abusers to keep children from their victims, just as this father had kept the child away from Claudine for years.  This is what they say about it:

2009: A Judicial Guide to Child Safety in Custody Cases
National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges Family Violence Department

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C. [§3.3] A Word of Caution about Parental Alienation34

Under relevant evidentiary standards, the court should not accept testimony regarding parental alienation syndrome, or “PAS.” The theory positing the existence of PAS has been discredited by the scientific community.35 In Kumho Tire v. Carmichael, 526 U.S. 137 (1999), the Supreme Court ruled that even expert testimony based in the “soft sciences” must meet the standard set in the Daubert case.36 Daubert, in which the court re-examined the standard it had earlier articulated in the Frye37 case, requires application of a multi-factor test, including peer review, publication, testability, rate of error, and general acceptance. PAS does not pass this test. Any testimony that a party to a custody case suffers from the syndrome or “parental alienation” should therefore be ruled inadmissible and stricken from the evaluation report under both the standard established in Daubert and the earlier Frye standard.38

The discredited “diagnosis” of PAS (or an allegation of “parental alienation”), quite apart from its scientific invalidity, inappropriately asks the court to assume that the child’s behaviors and attitudes toward the parent who claims to be “alienated” have no grounding in reality. It also diverts attention away from the behaviors of the abusive parent, who may have directly influenced the child’s responses by acting in violent, disrespectful, intimidating, humiliating, or discrediting ways toward the child or the other parent. The task for the court is to distinguish between situations in which the child is critical of one parent because they have been inappropriately manipulated by the other (taking care not to rely solely on subtle indications) , and situations in which the child has his or her own legitimate grounds for criticism or fear of a parent, which will likely be the case when that parent has perpetrated domestic violence. Those grounds do not become less legitimate because the abused parent shares them, and seeks to advocate for the child by voicing his or her concerns.

Congratulations to this mother and child, as they begin their first unmonitored visit in six years, being given two precious hours to spend together.  The visit began just a couple minutes ago, and my thoughts are with them.  The court needed to build up to full visitation, since access has been denied so long.  Court will reconvene in a month to expand the visitation.


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    Kansas Committee to hear testimony on Domestic Violence Bill (CJ-Online)

    http://cjonline.com/news/local/2010-01-30/committee_to_hear_testimony

     

     


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    BY THE CAPITAL-JOURNAL

    January 30, 2010 - 4:08pm

    Members of the House Committee on Corrections and Juvenile Justice will hear testimony Monday about proposed legislation that will assist the criminal justice system in documenting crimes associated with domestic violence.

    Curt and Christie Brungardt, who created Jana's Campaign to Stop Domestic Violence after their daughter, Jana Mackey, was slain in 2008 by her ex-boyfriend, will speak in support of the proposed legislation.

    House Bill 2517 requires a domestic violence tag be placed on all legal documents associated with a criminal act that is based on a domestic relationship. The tag is important because offenders often repeat their crimes, Curt Brungardt said in a news release. If passed, the legislation will encourage sanctions to be put in place before violence escalates.

    Also testifying at the hearing include representatives from the Attorney General's office, the Governor's Domestic Violence Fatality Review Board, Department of Corrections, law enforcement and the Kansas Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence.

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    KS: Start early to stop domestic violence

    http://www.kansas.com/opinion/editorials/story/1158068.html

    Start early to stop domestic violence

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    Domestic violence doesn't always happen at home. Sometimes it starts at school, where teen relationships grow and can go wrong.

    That makes schools an excellent staging area for the fight against dating violence in the short term and domestic violence in the long term.

    So it's good to see Start Strong Wichita, a four-year project of Catholic Charities of Wichita, working with USD 259, the Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center and Wichita State University to arm local teens with information about the risks and consequences of dating violence and their power and responsibility to prevent it.

    The effort, part of an 11-city national campaign fueled by $18 million from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, kicked off locally in October and will continue with an art exhibit of works by Wichita youths from 6 to 10 p.m. tonight at Hewitt's Antiques, 228 N. Market, as part of the popular Final Friday art crawl. More student-driven activities are planned throughout February, which is Teen Dating Violence Prevention Month, including theatrical events dealing with the dangers of teen dating violence, "sexting," cyberstalking and sexual assault.

    The point isn't just to educate the potential perpetrators and targets of dating violence but also to empower bystanders to help stop and prevent it. The Start Strong Wichita organizers also aim to extend the message to school curriculum.

    Adults in school and parents at home also need to be part of the solution, by modeling healthy relationships.

    "We can't ask teens to do something they don't see," Nancy Carroll, violence prevention coordinator with Catholic Charities Harbor House, told The Eagle editorial board.

    The program's stakes are high and rising: Wichita has accounted for almost 22 percent of reported sexual assaults in the state; nearly 50 percent of those have involved victims younger than 19. And Kansas' death toll from domestic violence saw an awful spike last year: At least 35 adults and 13 children lost their lives, up from 33 total domestic-violence-related murders in 2008 and 23 in 2007.

    If Start Strong Wichita succeeds in building healthy teen relationships at school, its impact on lives and families will linger long after graduation day and build a healthier community.

    — For the editorial board, Rhonda Holman

    Read more: http://www.kansas.com/opinion/editorials/story/1158068.html#ixzz0eCX3wKq8

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    KS: Start early to stop domestic violence

    http://www.kansas.com/opinion/editorials/story/1158068.html

    Start early to stop domestic violence

    Comments (8)

    Recommend (0)

    Domestic violence doesn't always happen at home. Sometimes it starts at school, where teen relationships grow and can go wrong.

    That makes schools an excellent staging area for the fight against dating violence in the short term and domestic violence in the long term.

    So it's good to see Start Strong Wichita, a four-year project of Catholic Charities of Wichita, working with USD 259, the Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center and Wichita State University to arm local teens with information about the risks and consequences of dating violence and their power and responsibility to prevent it.

    The effort, part of an 11-city national campaign fueled by $18 million from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, kicked off locally in October and will continue with an art exhibit of works by Wichita youths from 6 to 10 p.m. tonight at Hewitt's Antiques, 228 N. Market, as part of the popular Final Friday art crawl. More student-driven activities are planned throughout February, which is Teen Dating Violence Prevention Month, including theatrical events dealing with the dangers of teen dating violence, "sexting," cyberstalking and sexual assault.

    The point isn't just to educate the potential perpetrators and targets of dating violence but also to empower bystanders to help stop and prevent it. The Start Strong Wichita organizers also aim to extend the message to school curriculum.

    Adults in school and parents at home also need to be part of the solution, by modeling healthy relationships.

    "We can't ask teens to do something they don't see," Nancy Carroll, violence prevention coordinator with Catholic Charities Harbor House, told The Eagle editorial board.

    The program's stakes are high and rising: Wichita has accounted for almost 22 percent of reported sexual assaults in the state; nearly 50 percent of those have involved victims younger than 19. And Kansas' death toll from domestic violence saw an awful spike last year: At least 35 adults and 13 children lost their lives, up from 33 total domestic-violence-related murders in 2008 and 23 in 2007.

    If Start Strong Wichita succeeds in building healthy teen relationships at school, its impact on lives and families will linger long after graduation day and build a healthier community.

    — For the editorial board, Rhonda Holman

    Read more: http://www.kansas.com/opinion/editorials/story/1158068.html#ixzz0eCX3wKq8

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